Patience, moderation, a perfect blend of activities, a happy balance, purpose and meaning, mixing ideas and people into a perfect brew
Too much focus on one thing, ignoring responsibilities that you dislike, excess, imbalance, not seeing the bigger picture
Ever-elusive balance. You could drive yourself a little nutty chasing the perfect ratio of work, home, health, family, social life, hobbies, and wootime—and it’s okay not to strive for such a compulsive perfection. Sometimes, chilling way the bleep out is exactly what’s needed to usher in some desperately needed balance. Then again, you may be so complacent that your heart is begging for a healthier mix, and if this is you (and you’ll know it when it is), then the Universe requires more consistent energy from you in order to deliver your dreams. Regardless of your situation, if you’re feeling misaligned and out of whack, it’s time to come back to center. Look for solutions and situations that feel grounded and calming. Avoid anything that will tip the scales and suck way too much of your energy, time, or money (or that will provide you with too much lazing-around time!) and actively seek the moderation of tasks and time. Step away from drastic and excessive, and any imbalances that just don’t feel right. Consistent introspection to see where you’re lacking and where you’re leaking energy will guide you to the middle ground that’s required right now. Find longterm success through a measured blending of strengths, productivity, and stillness.
• No one can create balance for you. Only you know it, because it is a feeling. How balanced do you feel today? • What does a balanced life look like to you? Can you plan a week around this?
• Are there any self-critical not enoughs that are eating their way into your balance?